As the final days of Ramadan slip away, a bittersweet
feeling settles in. The month of mercy, discipline, and spiritual renewal is
leaving us. The long nights of prayer, the hunger that softened our hearts, and
the Qur’an recitations that filled our days, soon they will no longer be part
of a structured routine. But does that mean we have to leave Ramadan behind?
For a whole month, we have lived as our best selves. We
proved that we can resist temptation, control our words, pray on time, and give
generously. But now, as Ramadan departs, the real test begins: Was our worship
just for a season, or did it plant seeds for lasting change?
One of the greatest lessons of Ramadan is that we are
capable of more than we think. We often assume that certain acts of worship are
too difficult, that bad habits are too ingrained, or that laziness is simply
part of who we are. But this month proved otherwise. If we found ourselves more
patient, more devoted in prayer, and less attached to sins, it wasn’t just
because Shaytan was locked away. It was because we tapped into a deeper
strength within us, one that still exists beyond Ramadan. Ibn Al-Qayyim (رحمه الله) said: “Do not be like the one who
sews a garment and then destroys it. Remain firm upon the deeds you started,
for the Lord of Ramadan is the Lord of every month.” The way we lived
in Ramadan was not a temporary performance; it was a glimpse of our potential.
So as Ramadan departs we have two choices: Let old habits creep back in and
return to how we were before or take what we gained and build upon it.
Carrying
Ramadan Forward: Practical Steps
1. Keep
Fasting Alive
Fasting shouldn’t stop with Eid. The Prophet ﷺ said: “Whoever fasts Ramadan and follows
it with six days of Shawwal, it is as if he has fasted for a lifetime.”
(Muslim) Continuing to fast whether on Mondays and Thursdays or just the three
white days (of the full moon) in a month keeps our hearts connected to the
discipline we built.
2. Keep
Your Connection with the Qur’an Strong
Allah says: “Indeed, this Qur’an guides to that
which is most upright.” (Surah Al-Isra 17:9) In Ramadan, we built a habit
of reciting and reflecting on the Qur’an. Don’t let it gather dust after this
month. Even if it’s just one ayah a day, keep the Qur’an part of your life.
3.
Maintain the Prayer Routine
One of the biggest blessings of Ramadan is how it
strengthens our commitment to prayer. We made time for Taraweeh and Tahajjud, so
why not at least continue praying two rak‘ahs of night prayer after Isha? Even
a small act of extra worship can keep the spirit of Ramadan alive.
4. Keep
the Generosity Flowing
We gave in charity more in this month than any other.
But generosity isn’t just for Ramadan. The Prophet ﷺ
said: “The most beloved of deeds to Allah is that which is consistent, even if
it is small.” (Bukhari, Muslim) Even setting aside a small daily or weekly
sadaqah can keep us in the habit of giving.
5.
Guard Your Tongue and Actions
Ramadan trained us to hold back from gossip, arguing,
and negative speech. Just because we can eat and drink freely now doesn’t mean
we should lose control of our tongues. The Prophet ﷺ
said: “Whoever does not give up false speech and evil deeds, Allah has no need
for him to give up his food and drink.” (Bukhari) The real fasting continues
beyond Ramadan, fasting from anger, arrogance, and harmful words.
As we bid farewell to Ramadan, let’s remember: Allah is
not just the Lord of Ramadan. He is the Lord of every moment of our lives. The
same effort we put in this month, we can continue bit by bit, step by step. Ramadan
was a training ground, not an isolated event. The real test of our sincerity
isn’t in how well we worshipped during Ramadan, but in how much we carry
forward after Ramadan. Let’s not let Ramadan be just a memory. Let it be a
turning point. Let it be the start of something greater.
May Allah accept our deeds, forgive our shortcomings,
and allow us to continue growing in faith.
By Sh. Hassan Natour